They've Frozen My Account

Track of the day - All Over Bar The Shouting - Prince Edward Island.

My credit card company informs me that I may have been the victim of identity fraud, that they've frozen my account and that I should destroy the credit card
When I get my next card statement I have to examine the transactions and report anything suspicious.
As far as I can gather I have been purchasing items from a health store somewhere or other. Doesn't sound like me but there again you never know.
Chances are that I've destroyed my card for nothing.

Last Friday I went to the funeral of a guy I worked with for over twenty years.
The obituary notice said that he had died suddenly.
I'm not sure that 'suddenly' prepared me for the revelation that he had been hit by a train at a local station.
How do people, whether they are family, rail employees or emergency team members come to terms with something like that?